- 50% of children born to married parents will suffer through their parents’ divorce by age 18.
- Almost 60% of black children, 32% of Hispanic children and 21% of white children are living in single-parent homes
- Children who live apart from their fathers will account for 40% of incarcerated adults, 63% of teen suicides, 70% of juveniles in state-operated institutions, 71% of high-school dropouts, 75% of children in chemical-abuse centers, 80% of rapists, 85% of youths in prison, 85% of children who exhibit behavioral disorders, and 90% of homeless and runaway children.
- About 8% of children in married-couple homes live at or below poverty level, while almost 40% of children in homes without fathers live below poverty level. The latter group risks a much higher incidence of serious child abuse or neglect.
Now I have to tell you that I don't consider myself to be one of the best male parental units to have hit the planet. Like far too many fathers in society today, I was too wrapped up in the career that I was pursuing to have been there as much as I should have been. Even today, and though I have a very good relationship with my 3 children, I wish that I was able to spend more time with them. Fortunately for me, there were two very good women involved with their lives (their mother, and in case of the children from my first marriage their step-mother), and they were able to take up the slack from my slacking.
Something must have worked however, because I couldn't be happier or more proud about the way that the three of them turned out. On top of what their moms were able to do, maybe I was able to pass on some of what my father taught me:
- That honesty is the best policy, even if your only reward is that of self-respect.
- That your word is your bond and everything else is just society's nonsense.
- That if you work hard it will be rewarded, even if that reward is nothing more that knowing that you did your best.
- That you will make mistakes in life, but they are rarely permanent and that it's usually easier to fix them than to admit to them.
Note: Thanks to the Patriot Post for the startling statistics on this issue.